My Type of Guy

I was sitting quietly at the coffee shop working on the handout for The Brothers Karamazov, which the class will dive in this coming week (my 2nd all-time favorite fiction) next to The Master and Margarita until this guy walked in and everything out of the world seemed to disappear. It's not like I'll go strike a pass at him or anything--he's more like an eye candy. A white male in his late 30s (maybe early 40s), not too tall, around 5'8", buzz cut, goatee (facial hair gets to the very front of the line), thick calves (legs are the usually the first physical attributes I look at in a guy). This guy has an athletic-fit baseball T-shirt on, which accentuates his gym physique and the knee-length shirts do his muscular legs justice. Anyway I hope that will answer many of your questions regarding the type of guy that usually gets my attention. I also find a little belly sexy in a man so the 6 pack ab does not really matter to me. When I walk around the Castro and see guys who are endowed with this musculine, ruggedly, and gruffy appearance, I often find them being attracted to guys who look just like themselves. So I haven't had any luck finding a guy like that and, no sooner had I stopped looking (contriving to even think about looking) did I meet someone who not only has all the physical attributes but a sense of humor and a brain! He makes my heart throb with joy.